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Do you love the holidays, or does the thought of all of the extra work cause your anxiety level to soar? Notice I didn’t say stressless, but stress less. I am realistic!  I am hoping that with some planning and organization I will be able to relax and enjoy more. In order to take the stress off the days just prior to Thanksgiving, I am making a list of things to start doing now. 

1. Check serving dishes, china, and crystal – Do you have everything you need? Do you need to add a piece or two to accommodate all of your guests. Remember it isn’t imperative that everything matches, but having them coordinate adds to the loveliness of your table.

2. Check linens – Do you need a new tablecloth? Will you use cloth or paper napkins? How about cocktail napkins?

3. Prepare flatware – If you only use your silver on the holidays, does it need to be polished? If you will be using stainless, do you have enough to accomodate all of your guests? Don’t forget to check your serving spoons; I never seem to have enough serving spoons!

4. Check pots, pans, bakeware, roaster, etc. - Do you need a roaster for that turkey? Will you have enough pots and pans? I am planning to use my crock pot for a couple of recipes. I may even grab another crock pot, just to have it on hand. Oh, and don’t forget about small appliances like a mixer or coffee maker. How about knives? Do you need new ones, or need to get your old ones sharpened?

5. Browse cookbooks for recipes – This is one of my favorites! I love to look through cookbooks, magazines, recipe cards, or on-line to find tempting treats for this special time of the year. It’s one of the ways I relax while watching television.

6. Plan for centerpiece – I usually use candles, but if you will be adding a floral arrangement order it soon it will be one less thing to worry about later.

7.  Plan for or order side dishes and desserts - Do you love your local bakery’s pies? Order them soon. Will Aunt Susie be bringing her famous sweet potatoes or broccoli casserole? If you ask friends and family to bring extras this far in advance they are more likely to say ‘yes.’ Afterall, they have weeks to prepare!

8. Plan for seating – I think placecards are a wonderful idea. The kids will love making them. You place your guests around the table in a way that will provide for the best conversation. You can prevent your two cousins from only talking to each other if you place them close but not right next to each other. If Uncle Charlie and your dad get into the worst political debates, put them at opposite ends of the table. They can discuss politics later over the football game.

9. Prepare guest room – Do a quick check of your guest room. Does it need a fresh coat of paint? Fresh bedding? A basket for books and magazines? If you have the luxury of an extra guest room, prepare it ahead, close the door, and it’s one less last minute thing to do.

10. Purchase hostess gifts – If you are blessed to be celebrating Thanksgiving at someone else’s home this year, don’t forget to find a hostess gift now. I hate having to pick up something the day before when I am trying to pack and get the dog to the kennel.

That’s my list! I hope to begin working on it myself. I’m looking forward to a joy-filled blessed Thanksgiving relaxing with loved ones . . . letting them know how very thankful I am for them!